There are moments when something from the past resurfaces out of nowhere. There is no clear trigger or obvious reason for it; nevertheless, it’s a memory that is vivid enough to pull you back in time and make you feel something you thought you had moved past. That happened to me this past week. At […]
The (unhelpful) Criticism Read More »
Do you ever procrastinate even when you know how much better you’ll feel once the thing is done? But you still delay it, avoid it, and find multiple excuses to do it at a better time. Over the last couple of weeks, I found myself in exactly that place. I dug my heels in about
Avoiding the Inevitable Read More »
I stood in the laundry room holding a damp shirt and crying like something catastrophic had happened. It was my husband’s favorite shirt. I had ruined it in the wash. He wasn’t angry. He wasn’t upset. He has never once made me feel small over a mistake like that. He is kind. He is forgiving.
My Crooked Progress Read More »
“Be strong. This is life. You’ll have to learn to fight.” “You can’t be so sensitive.” If you’ve ever been on the receiving end of statements like these, you know how hollow they can feel. I’ve heard them many times myself. Most days, I can brush them off. But there are moments in life when
When It Feels All Too Real Read More »
For many years, until fairly recently, I believed in certain superstitions I grew up around. Even when a part of me questioned them, a bigger part of me followed them without protesting. Life already felt hard enough, and I didn’t want to risk making it harder. In hindsight, I can see that this wasn’t intuition
My Not-So Superstitious Self Read More »
When I was a child, there was an incident that upset me deeply. It’s one that stayed with me for a long time. My parents and I were out for dinner with family friends and their children. In this week’s blog, I share what followed: misbehavior, accusations, and lies. This story matters, because I hope
Why Are You Lying? Read More »
I’ve never really believed in New Year’s resolutions. The few times I tried to make them, they felt disconnected, almost phony. I never understood why we wait for one year to end and another to begin before giving ourselves permission to change. I believe growth can happen the moment we decide it matters. That said,
My Favorite Guides Read More »
As a child growing up in Bombay, I spent hours looking up at the sky from my window. I had a breathtaking view of the sun setting over the Arabian Sea, the kind that makes you pause mid-thought without quite knowing why. When I woke up early to study for exams, I would glance outside
Every good day doesn’t guarantee another good day. Every day that we are alive doesn’t guarantee another day of life. Still, it gets so easy to take a good day and life for granted until there are days when your heart feels heavier than usual. This past month has been one of those for me.
Transitions of Loss Read More »
There was a time when the slightest perceived unfairness towards an innocent or myself would set me off. I’d lose my cool, then spiral into shame for not handling the situation more maturely. I envied people who could stay calm, composed, and seemingly detached when faced with unfairness. Why couldn’t I be more like them?
My Relationship with Injustice Read More »
